This blog is for educational and entertainment purposes and will chronicle my search for the "best" toys 4 boys, male sex toys on the market... Whether for solo-play or play with partners, I'll review all kinds of products and give you the 411 on how to get the best out of your toys... And I'll provide you here with some great information relating to all things SEX and sexy!
Thursday, July 8, 2010
TURBO 8 (Dual Vibrating Bullets)
CYBERSKIN DREAM DICK
Now… I’ve sold this Dream Dick to many folks, mostly for vaginal and anal penetration, and that goes with out saying that when this cock is lubed up it’s like butter, really… But additionally, I’ve sold it for oral play, as it just feels too damn real to not have a go at it. So you can get a lot of play out of this cock, and certainly feel like you got your money’s worth, and provided you take proper care of it, it should last you a lifetime truly… In my experience this dildo toy has a way of getting you in the mood just by pulling out of your toy box. It’s really that good.
So it goes without saying on a scale of 4 stars, this Dream Dick well exceeds that but gets 4 brilliantly glistening stars for realness, price point, life expectancy, and pleasure and fantasy fulfillment. Admittedly, I don’t foresee myself going back to any other dildo, but a CyberSkin dildo because of it’s realistic feel, pliability and craftsmanship. Oddly enough, cousin to the Dream Dick is the Perfect Pecker, which is equally as big in length at a sexxxy 8” but an even heartier hand full in girth and the width on this bad boy will have any orifice eagerly anticipating it’s arrival. Run out now and invest in one of these, as this is the number one dildo in my Must-Haves, for any toy box.
FLESHLIGHT ICE

The #1 Selling Male Sex Toy In The World! NO SHIT! So, I’m usually ahead of the curve when it comes to most things, especially as far as Style & Fashion go, and most things artistic and creative… BUT somehow it turns out I’m well behind the curve on this toy. Ok so, the Fleshlight and Fleshjack toys have been on the market for a few/several years, and well, I’m a dedicated hands-on kind of masturbator, lol, no pun intended, and a couple of years ago I tried another masturbation sleeve, with a vibrating unit on it and loved it…especially since I was playing with my ex at the time and it was really great to use it on myself, but to give up control and let another person take over was electrically sexxxy and HOT!
So with all the hype I just never broke down and bought one, but I had secretly been doing my research and decided the one that I wanted was the Ice version of the Fleshlight as it is clear/see-through and if you’re visually stimulated by yourself, like I am…this is the Jackpot! I opted for the Clear Mouth orifice with the Speed Bump texture. I could hardly wait to play with this sleeve, and see what all the hype was about. Behind the curve, ahead of it or not, this is the second Must-Have on my list.
I could get very graphic and describe in delicious detail how I christened this cock swallowing sleeve of Superskin, but it’s not necessary. What you need to know is, if you’ve been lagging behind the curve, CATCH UP! Run out today and get on of these bad boys. It felt so realistic it felt like the best head I EVER HAD!!!! And even though there’s nothing better than the real thing, forget whatcha heard, this is it! And hey, it doesn’t talk back. The Speed Bump texture is awe inspiring and really makes an impact on your junk when you rotate the canister, which unless you’re hanging someone from the ceiling and they’re able to gobble your bits and spin around your cock like a Cirque du Soleil performer, you haven’t felt this kind of oral manipulation on your cock, EVER!!! And you can’t even achieve this effect with your hand, so don’t go there! LOL!!! The super tight canal to the Fleshlight Ice is rated a 4 out of 5 on their intensity scale and I’m most eager to buy an insert rated 5 out of 5, so that’s on my list and will of course be a Review for Passional’s SEXPLORATORIUM, and my Toys 4 Boys blog.
I can’t rave about and talk about this toy enough. I highly highly recommend this toy to EVERY man on the face of the planet, for it’s pleasure giving powers! For price point it’s an investment, but so worth it, you will not be disappointed. It’s big, in size, has some weight to it and needs to be cleaned thoroughly after each use, but provided you care for it properly you will be pleasing yourself for years to cum and will thank me on the street for this recommendation and review!
Oh lastly, do follow instructions on this masturbation sleeve as far as lube goes, stick with water based lubes on this guy as it does not take well to Silicone, which I am a big fan of and generally use for all my play needs. It absorbed, so to speak the Silicone lube and makes it dry out like a bad cotton mouthed blow job, no good I tell you, no good, LOL!!! Hears to pleasuring thyself! Now get to it!
Saturday, March 6, 2010
FIND ME AT PASSIONAL & SEXPLORATORIUM!!!
NEX T TOY REVIEWS!!!
TENGA SQUEEZE PLAY 8.0
TENGA Squeeze Play 8.0
So there’s been much talk and excitement around the TENGA toys coming out of
The packaging is fairly simple, a red and silver striped canister like sleeve…it reads TENGA – Engineered for a man’s sexual pleasure: Squeeze Play 8.0. The 8.0 refers to size, as there is another version, the 6.0 which is made smaller and meant for easier travel and portability. Included in the packaging is a preservative packet that reads Oxygen Absorber – Do not eat, Do not microwave, and a small instructional fold out that reads: Warning: Read all instructions inside carefully before using! There are 6 steps or instructions for use and an additional 13 other points to consider before using. Admittedly none of this is getting me excited, but let’s do our homework here, to maximize the benefits…
I’m going to carefully peel the package film back along the perforations to expose the end cap, removing the film entirely from the Squeeze Play model. It reveals a boring solid white canister. Next you peel off the small round sticker on the top to open the suction regulator… Now we’re talking!!! Remove the end cap and slowly penetrate the hole, ok, now we’re moving right along… Step 4 says: Enjoy the product through motion. You can experiment by moving it back and forth, rolling it, and covering and uncovering the suction regulator to create a variety of sensations.
The TENGA Squeeze Play is already lubricated inside and it is recommended that you don’t add any other lubricant to it…so here goes…I gotta do some work to get myself up and have a go at this. I stroke myself erect and I’m geared up with a silicone tear drop cock ring, in red… I’m ready to penetrate…
The opening, or orifice looks pretty non gender specific, which is pretty cool, a hole is a hole is a hole, right? It’s kinda tight, which is good, and textured on the inside… It feels pretty good as I “experiment” by moving it back and forth, up and down, slamming it down, holding it down, rolling it around (the base of my cock), teasing the head with quick motions, etc…getting through the basics of masturbation…
Steppin it up we add the suction regulator feature, now that added another dimension…like someone really having a go at your junk… It was pleasantly cool playing with the suction regulator, and “squeezing” the Squeeze Play over my parts and in the end, cumming to conclusion was quite delightful, relaxing and enjoyable. I don’t really need to elaborate or get graphic to give this “sucker” a review
I recommend this toy totally. I think it was way cool, an awesome import, and it served its purpose well and in the end I felt really relaxed and genuinely content. I would recommend this for first time buyers, or anyone interested in, jack-off sleeves and masturbators, for sure. For the guy who doesn’t already own a Fleshlight and wants to get an idea of what all the excitement is about and is not ready or sure they wanna make the investment in a Fleshlight. I would additionally recommend this for price point, affordability and for travel, as it is very light in weight and discreet.
Lastly, The TENGA Squeeze Play 8.0 is a disposable, single use, masturbation sleeve, but could be used several times provided you DO NOT shoot your load into the Tenga, as it’s not made to be taken apart, or cleaned, because there is a round piece of foam, which houses the lubricant in the tip of the sleeve, so if you shoot your wad into the Squeeze Play, well, it could get gross and your jizz could fester till you tried to play with it again, as well, the lubricant may dry up between play.
It's been far too long, ugh!!!!
So, with that being said... WELCOME BACK BOYS!!!!!!!!!!! The following post will be a review for the Tenga Squeeze Play 8.0... I'll be sure to be posting/blogging much more often again, and connecting up with some people I have been out of touch with and a heap loads of more fun shtuff! Stay tuned!
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
MY LATEX FETISH

What can I say, I am a Fashion Designer by trade...and I love all things fashion, sexy and SLICK, and you gets no slicker than LATEX. *Click on yellow text for LATEX links to BUY! I always loved the look of latex, the feel, the aesthetic, the tautness, the warmth, the sweat...oh yeah, you can sweat your arse off in some LATEX, but you better believe ALL eyes are gonna be on you...The Fetish that is LATEX is many things, for many people, but when you get right down to it, it's about the look of it, the shiny, slick, sexy, tight, revealing LOOK OF IT! LATEX makes me feel real good about myself, real confident in the sense that you gotta have balls to step out in some LATEX, in any community outside of the BDSM and Fetish communities... Strangely enough, you'll get that much respect, bam, straight out the gate. But then the compliments pour in and you know you got it goin' on... Is it about braggin' rights, not really, not for me...it makes me feel good, makes me feel sexy and gives me a great sense of positive personal image and confidence...and that's my fetish that is LATEX!
Latex is much like any other fetish, like leather, corsets, etc...you DO have to carry yourself with confidence, but don't be an asshole and let it go to your head, unless COCKiness is your thing, and I'm not saying it's NOT my thing...but, it the worse to be complimented and not be gracious... Now if you're in the lifestyle and LATEX is not a fetish, that's a completely different game, entirely...
But most of all, I think LATEX is empowering and makes me feel like a lil superhero of my own...deep down inside I'm a dork, lol...and I loved comic books as a kid, so this fetish of LATEX of mine does really go further back, but it wasn't till I tried on my first LATEX Cincher (with matching gauntlets) and Latex Biker Shorts for a photoshoot for Fetishes Boutique (now PASSIONAL Boutique) that I was hooked! My Fetish for LATEX was born!
Oh, would you look at that, HA! I found it! It's nothing short of a miracle, but I dug this photo out taken at a Libertine or Diabolique Ball from years ago...to illustrate my lil post, hehehe! I'm too many things...Ok, so where was I going with this post? Oh, Yes! My fetish and fascination with LATEX, oh and before I do go on, my second piece of LATEX was gifted to me by a good buddy, and was a black wrestling singlet with a black zipper up the front, SUPERHOT...a size too big, but has always driven me to "grow" into it...LOL!!
No, seriously, the fetish of LATEX goes beyond the look and the feeling, and we're gonna explore that more with a short tale of the first time I played with a partner in LATEX...keep an ear to the router and stay with me guys!
More about the LIBERTINE BALL!!!

Over the years I've modeled and danced Go-Go, and flagged/fan danced at this event and it's always been well received and I've always had a good time...so let your inhibitions go and let out that inner EXHIBITIONIST! And come out for LIBERTINE XI!
Basically Shampoo Nightclub turns into a big fetish playground with a fully operational dungeon with furniture, complete with Doms and subs, dance space, play space, great DJs, performances, and eye candy in every direction! Not sure if he'll be out, but my favorite attraction, lol, is Carpet Boy, he's got his own apparatus that allows people to walk all over him, just like he likes it!
See ya there!
PS - Proper fetish attire is required and be sure to do your own research on dungeon/BDSM protocol, if you think you'll be into participating in these activities!
OR go to LibertineBall.com to read up on etiquette and play rules!
PSS - This pic is from The Diabolique Ball, the Fall Ball Sister to The Libertine Ball!
The LIBERTINE Ball - Fetish Ball
LIBERTINE BALL XIROAD WARRIORS
THIS YEAR’S BALL: POST- APOCALYPTIC FETISH MASQUERADE
PASSIONAL Boutique and the Sexploratorium present
Libertine Ball XI: Road Warriors
Coming to Philadelphia’s Shampoo Nightclub
Saturday August 8th 2009, 9PM- 2AM
21+ with ID
Come by PASSIONAL Toys or Boutique
Fetish/ Fantasy costume mandatory. No suits, Street clothes, Jeans, T-shirts or Sneakers. Period.
Mainstage performances by Dante Posh, Octavio, Sacred Marks Sanctuary
Fashion shows by PASSIONAL Boutique, Delicious Boutique and BabyLoves Latex
Three dancefloors (two indoors, one outdoors) powered by DJs LoveGun, evilv, Johanna Constantine, Phranque, Xris SMack!
Dancing and entertainment by Bodacious Bev, Zonk, and more!
Interactive playspace hosted by Mistress Regina
Dungeon equipped and monitored by The Black Phoenix
Monday, August 3, 2009
THE APHRODITE GALLERY
The Aphrodite Gallery is located at PASSIONAL Toys (620 South 5th Street) in the heart of the South Street business District. Aphrodite Gallery was created as Philadelphia’s showcase for erotic fine arts in 2003. Stained glass artist Cindi Bartholemew was the first artist showcased and was followed by dozens of other local, national and international artists of acclaim. Originally located on the 2nd floor above the former Fetishes Boutique (now PASSIONAL Boutique) Aphrodite Gallery featured monthly exhibits and hosted dozens of PASSION 101 fantasy workshops until it moved into the new Sexploratorium building down the street where it continues to grow and evolve.
The erotic themes featured in the gallery have been sexually and visually diverse: from the mainstream photographic erotica of Tony Ward (of Penthouse Magazine and beyond) to abstract three dimensional pieces by feminist students, and most recently the award winning photography of Hataiiia
We're always looking for artists to show/sell their sexy and erotic art! If interested please contact our curators Eric ZONK of ZONK ARTS Gallery or Sam at:
Make sure to include photos of your work or a link to an online portfolio of your work as well as biographical information and geographic availability to the Philadelphia area for our artists’ receptions.
Jayce Mirada & His "Boys of Bondage"

"BOYS OF BONDAGE" - A photographic essay of boys in various bondage situations by my very good friend, and photographer, Jayce Mirada, is showing at The APHRODITE Gallery @ 620 South 5th Street - 3rd Floor of PASSIONAL Toys.
Jayce and I have been friends for well, longer than we'd both probably like to admit, ha! But, as far as we go back, our relationship has always been one of making art! As I remember it, I think I thought of Jayce as one of those "nuts-and-bolts" photographer...and when we met and decided to shoot, he was, in fact one of the first few photographers I shot with, and he would let me bring a bag o' shtuff, fashions, props, make-up, etc...and we would jam out to Prince and make art.
So much time passed and Jayce was living down in FL and returned to the Philadelphia area recently, so it was with the greatest pleasure, as the co-curator of The APHRODITE Gallery, that I got him in the gallery with this small showing of affordable erotic prints from a series of boys and bondage that he has continually worked on for, well, many years!
His work will show through August, with a Closing Reception on August 28th from 7pm - 9pm
More of his work can be seen on his site:
New Wave Images: (www.newwaveimages.com)
PS - IF you dig deep enough, you might find naughty pix of me, somewhere buried very deep in the recesses of his site, LOL!!!!!
Kink, Fetish and Safer Sex Practices???
My own journey with fetish began years ago at a function where I met Kali Morgan for the first time. It was a VIP Party at Club 1616 after the opening night of a Cirque du Soleil show. I was there to twirl my flags and dance, and shared the dressing room area with Kali and her cast of gorgeous and fabulous guys and dolls, of the Passional empire, and the Peek-a-boo Revue. I remember very clearly someone asking me if I wanted to be wrapped in Saran Wrap, dripped in hot wax and set on fire... Well, needless to say I was a bit taken aback and said I would need to think on it. Over the next couple of hours, time had passed and it was getting late and Kali asked me again, only this time, due to time constraints I would just do the hot wax bit... I agreed, dressed in sexy tight latex, my fetish, and a bit nervous, but curiously excited at the same time we went out to the mainstage area...
I was laid down on a box and surrounded by 2 or 3 ladies, clad in fetish garb or nearly naked, with candles...the music was pumpin, sexy, and I seemed to just relax into it and they started to drip wax, slowly, onto my chest, drips here, drips there, over my chest and stomach. At first it felt weird, a little warm, but not hot, not so hot that it hurt, but it definitely felt "good", and I was liking it. IF I could only have seen myself as an observer, that would've been interesting, because I definitely felt aroused, and it felt good, regardless of the fact that it was a bunch of chicks, which is not my cup o' tea, but it seemed to be much more about the wax, the feeling, the heat, the music, everything but the girls, lol...
And I liked it, like Mikey, I fuckin' liked it... I clearly remember feeling aroused and was given the go-ahead to get up, my chest, neck and stomach covered in wax, and I was in an aroused daze and some hot latina chica came up to me and said, "You're hot papi!" And planted a full lip smack right on my mouth. I was just like, let me roll with the punches here, because I really felt good...
Most importantly, what you need to know from this lil story is that, I too, at some time, felt like "kink and fetish" wasn't my thing, it wasn't for me, but I have always considered myself open-minded and this experience was really like an icebreaker for me, it opened my mind up a bit further to go ahead and start to explore some other sides of my Sexual Self...shit, here I was getting turned on by hot wax and chicks...what's next?
That was years ago, and I continue to push the limits of my own perceptions of my Sexual Self, and I challenge you to do the same thing... Remember the "meat" from the Sex Pyramid, well this can be that, lol, but it can be dessert, or even snacks that just get us by until our next meal...fortunately some types of fetish and kink can be quick and clean and not so time consuming, and others can be all about ritual/protocol/pageantry...but to each his own!
That's a wrap for now Sexy Boys and Girls! This topic will be a reoccurring topic and I would love to get some followers on here and hear some of your experiences with all things sexy, kinky and fetish!
KINKYSpace.com

KINKYSpace.com - It's like MySpace, but for Kinky Friends!
From ErosArts Productions
A FREE social network site for kinky fetish friends
* Create your own unique profile
* Share your kinky pics
* Create groups
* Live chat
* Post and manage events
* Blog
* Classified Section and Personals
* Find friends who share your fetish
Created by kinky people for kinky people!
Sunday, August 2, 2009
The Inflatable Jack Off Sleeve - PART 2
Ok, so this toy is totally proving to be interesting, to say the least, and quite fun... So I get up with a bud today to try this sucker out in partner-play and my bud is totally fired up and curious. We get down to our normal business and get into "our mood"... Then I pull out The Inflatable Jack Off Sleeve and his eyes widen...it's a bit out of curiosity and a bit of what seems like fear, like what-the-fuck is this thing...???
OK - brief pause here, STRAIGHT GUYS, do NOT hesitate to switch these pronouns up and put yourself in my buds place. Basically I'm suggesting you give control over to your lady friend, wife, etc...and give into the Sleeve! This toy has A LOT of potential and I don't want straight guys to get baffled by its usage in gay play...be creative, be open and have fun trying something new.
So, my bud is rock hard, and I lube up his cock and ram the sleeve onto his throbbing piece... First, I get it on over his man-meat deflated and pump it for a few minutes, like the nice, slow and methodical head I talked about in Part 1 - Solo Play... I start pumping the bulb and putting the pressure on and inflating the sleeve and he's definitely into it...he's laying back with that, go-ahead-tear-it-up look in his eyes...it's a new and different sensation, and well new and different are always big winners in any relationship where it's the same-old-same-old... So I continue to inflate the sleeve to its fullest and tightest, like the tightest hole and cooch you've rammed your cock into...and he's feeling pretty good and into it...GREAT!
Just as soon as we reach that height he begins to lose his hard-on and it's more of just a novelty. This sleeve is work, for sure...it has many possibilities, and much potential, but you certainly need all parties involved to be entirely into the idea of playing, trying something new and exploring different angles and the such... I would certainly recommend this to someone who is into just that idea, but if you're much like most men, it's gotta be put out, or get out, LOL!!!
No, seriously, this sleeve takes time to "figure out", in so many senses of the word, and it will certainly take time to master, not only in solo-play, but even more so in partner-play. Part of the issue here is LUBE...you need to use lube to get the most benefit and action out of this toy, but lube can be the downfall at the same time. If you're lubing up your cock and handling the sleeve, then handling the bulb and trying to get all things moving or going at the same time, it's like fucking Atari, it's all about hand/digit coordination...you'll be dropping the bulb and losing grip on the sleeve, but with a little practice and persistence I think this Inflatable Jack Off Sleeve could prove to be a valuable asset to any toy chest...the possibilities are endless!
Feel free to hit me up with questions or ideas on how to take this toy to the next level... I'm not done with it, and if you're so inclined to go on this sexy journey with me, we'll continue to explore its potential... In the meantime, play safe and have a sexy muthah-of-a-time at it!
Saturday, August 1, 2009
Are you in "The Biz"?

Are you in "The Biz"? What "Biz" you might be thinking, well, as this blog relates to all things SEX, the "Biz" I'm talking about here is Adult Entertainment.
Are you in "The Biz"? is 12-step based support for adult entertainers of all genders in recovery from alcohol and/or drugs...
These folks meet Mondays @ 7:30pm
(in a convenient CC Philly location)
For the location you can send an email to: theBiz.meeting@yahoo.com
And/or check out their blog at: (http://thebiz-meeting.blogspot.com)
Stay tuned for more information relating to Sex Work, in all of it many manifestations...such as testing info for stds and HIV/AIDS, and people to talk to if you're a sex worker and you NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO...and other great resources...
The Sex Pyramid
I think whether you're single, or in a relationship this visual, this "learning" tool and aid...can give you a better and broader scope of yourself as a sexual being, whatever your orientation is, or with whomever you choose to be intimate with, with whomever you choose to share your body with...
I found this interesting article on AOL, so please follow this link:
http://www.aolhealth.com/healthy-living/relationships/sex-pyramid
I think I just loved this idea of a more wholistic approach to our sex lives, so much so I really wanted to share it, for this reason: We're evolved enough as a species to not fall into the "sex for procreation" category, but we still need a visual, a guide to show us how much more we can get from our sex lives... I feel it's very important to have sexual contact with others, but that it's not just the bump-and-grind kind, all the time...
From the article:
Add New Moves to Your Romantic Repertoire
Subsisting on a diet drawn from one food group isn't healthy or gratifying. Even eating cupcakes 24/7 eventually would get old! And yet when it comes to feeding our sexual appetite, many of us rely on one mode to sate all of our romantic cravings. Turns out, women who order the same meal at the same restaurant every time, so to speak, are missing out.And I really think this sums up the idea of the Sex Pyramid, it's a great visual, and what I want for you, my readers to get most from this is, DIVERSITY is good, bump-and-grind is good, but be open to trying new things... Intimacy for most men is like an end-all, it's the party pooper, in a sense... So get your meat intake, and some fruits, and some veggies, and some sweets... If "meat" is bump-and-grind, then "fruits and veggies" are like foreplay, and "sweets", well that's dessert, that's the post-play, the intimate moment after the fact... Get good full servings from all the parts of The Sex Pyramid and I think you'll feel better about your sex life, maybe even bring more longevity to it, and for certain, I hope it'll bring you closer to your partners, be them men or women... Additionally, consider trying one part of the pyramid a night or session and practice and try it out in new ways that brings you and your partner to new heights!
So, here's one version of the pyramid I thought would give you the best visual:
Friday, July 31, 2009
My Day Job at PASSIONAL!!!!
Where this is going is that I finally picked a product from the Toy Store (The Inflatable Jack Off Sleeve) and started a review for the store, for the website... So, it goes without saying, you can get this product at The Sexploratorium at PASSIONAL Toys (www.passionaltoys.com) -
Welcome to The SEXPLORATORIUM at PASSIONAL Toys. We are growing into all three floors of 620 S. 5th St. in Philadelphia (just one block from South Street on 5th). Visit our new Male Room featuring tools/toys for boys/men, the expanded Fetishes and Furniture departments on our 2nd floor and the new home of The APHRODITE Gallery and PASSION 101 Workshops & Classes on the 3rd floor.We look forward to doing business and pleasure with you soon!
PASSIONAL is open everyday of the week, from noon - 10pm...and our amazing staff of highly knowledgeable sex-positive sales associates will be there to help you with intelligent, safe and body-positive decisions and choices that best suit your needs, desires and fantasies!



